If you have been following my blog this past year, you've probably seen pieces of a very "October" looking quilt in progress. The quilt is finally complete, in Loving Memory of my irreplaceable Bestie - Vicki Steffenhagen. 1950
– 2015
I’d like the memory of me to be a happy one, I’d like to leave an
afterglow of smiles when life is done.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun, of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
I’d like to leave an echo whispering softly down the ways, of happy times and laughing times and bright and sunny days.
I’d like the tears of those who grieve, to dry before the sun, of happy memories that I leave when life is done.
“Thinking about you a lot today as I look
through your unfinished projects. Reflecting on how amazing you were. How big
your heart was, how vast your mind and how kind your spirit. Always learning
and always teaching. Together, we were an unbeatable team. There will never be
another like you. I love you and miss you every day. But I'm doing better. Day
by day, week by week. I feel your watchful eye on me. Your silent strength and I
love you for it. Thank you for your unwavering friendship for so many years.”
Quilt Name:
Autumn Victoria
Piecers:
Vicki R. Steffenhagen
Janet A. Mercer
Vicki R. Steffenhagen
Janet A. Mercer
Amazingly talented
Long Arm Quilter:
Long Arm Quilter:
Kim Werth
The "Story"
- Once upon a time, the Lord graced the world with a special Angel. Everything
she touched, everyone she met, was better, forever changed, because of her. She
was my BFF, my soul Sister, my guardian angel. She bought this pattern almost 2
years ago (Glacier Star + Queen Borders by Judy Neimeyer), signed up for
classes at Mt. Pleasant to stay focused on it and set to work. Ray, her husband, shared “I remember spending an entire day going to
one shop after another looking for the right fabric and colors so my bride
could make this quilt. At the time it was nothing more than a lot of shopping
bags. As she began to sew the sections I
saw the idea she was embracing. She never got many areas complete before the
Lord called her home.”
Before Vicki passed away, she had completed the large center star pieces,
the inset squares and had begun working on the spiked star outline pieces. The
pieces were lovingly folded into a carrying box with all the tools needed to
pick it up and work on it whenever the mood hit her. I inherited many of her beautiful things and
this quilt was the one that I decided to focus my effort on to complete in time
for her guild's show. My tears are woven
into this quilt. Some of my healing came from this quilt. Its beauty is nothing
compared to the beautiful soul we had the opportunity to know.
Special thanks
to more of my besties that also laid their hands on this quilt. Kim Werth (The Long Arm Quilter),
Mary Christopher & Kathy Case (the
paper-puller-offer-team), Lois
Marvin, Lori Zappala, Charlotte Hawkes, Kathy Rochette, Lona Mahoney, Denise
Hare, Anita Kile, Jerilyn Prentice
(the CHEERLEADERING TEAM!!) Whether it was to position pieces, make color
choices, change things, change them back, encourage me, sit and peel papers
off, do the breathtaking quilting and help to stitch the binding. Friendship....is what quilting is truly
all about.
……………. “Do What Matters!” ……………….
……………. “Do What Matters!” ……………….
I teared up reading this Jan! Beautiful tribute to your friend. I'm sorry for your loss. I'm sure you miss her every day. What a beautiful thing for you to do in her memory.
ReplyDeleteI did more than tear up--I downright blubbered! What a moving story and how blessed you were to have each other! The quilt is a masterpiece...
ReplyDeleteHello Jan, I just happened to stumble on a photo of this amazing quilt on a pinterest page tonight. I usually get frustrated navigating that rabbit hole of photos because most pics only link you to even more pics. Blissfully, this photo had a link to you and your blog. I'm sorry to read that you had lost your wonderful friend, and your story of your quilting journey together warms my heart.
ReplyDeleteSeeing your page banner that you have a repair shop for Singer machines, would you be interested in a box of Singer attachments? I bought some sewing/craft items at an auction and found the box mixed in with everything. There was no sewing machine included in the lot, so I can only guess that they were tossed in by mistake.
I can send you a picture so that you can identify the pieces and see if you could use them for a customer. Please email me at melanie93110@gmailcom if you're interested. They're yours for free if you can find them a home.
Regards,
Melanie Lovett
Ontario, California.
This quilt is gorgeous and you are an amazing friend. Anyone would be so lucky to have you in their life.
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry for your loss.
As I read your blog I cannot begin to tell you how many emotions I felt. I have a beautiful friend like that. Like you.
I just read this and Jam so sorry for your loss.A beautiful quilt and friendship. Love to you all, Louise
ReplyDeleteI think this is the most beautiful quilt I've ever seen and your story of friendship very heart warming. Do very sorry for your loss
ReplyDeleteEvery morning, as I sit with my tablet reading my mail, I'm surrounded by a quilt, nowhere as spectacular as this, I started many years ago. 21/2" squares made into a heart. I had 3 or 4 squares made and just hanging on the back of a door, when my bff, who had been fighting cancers for 20 years, decided it was time for a bone marrow transplant. I finished the quilt for her and was me and the quilt were with her daily in the hospital for several months as they killed all the bad cells to get ready for the good cells. Unfortunately, she never got the good cells. I wear a beautiful diamond bracelet she gave me our last Christmas together. It's been off my arm only 3 times in 2.5 years to be cleaned. And her heart quilt is on the back of my recliner. She wraps her arms around me daily. Someday, there will be a glorious reunion of all the quilters and the loved ones we made quilts for.
ReplyDeleteI also had a hard time reading this through my tears. The quilt is a breathtaking reflection of a beautiful friendship! I would hope my quilt buddies would step up and do this if one of our group passes. Of course we aren't on the level of this outstanding quilt.
ReplyDeletejust beautiful.... this quilt will always hold special memories...must have taken a long time to make this beautiful quilt..
ReplyDeleteFall is my favorite season and this quilt is a gorgeous representation of all that happens in Autumn. When the leaves turn to gold, orange, red and brown all around us. To wrap us in comfort and warmth like this colorful quilt would do. When all the contributors coalesce to make one BFF's dream a work of devotion and love realized.
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss! I've lost a best friend and it's very painful. Where can I buy the pattern for this quilt?
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